Ella Fitzgerald once said, “Comes love, nothing can be done.”
While I’m inclined to agree (because how could I disagree with Ella?), come February 14th something definitely can be done. That’s right. A humdinger of a Valentine’s Day party can be done.
Or had, if we’re using proper grammar. Tomayto, tomahto.
Anyway, party enthusiasts can buckle up for a Valentine’s Day celebration that’s anything but old hat. Valentine’s Day parties solely focused on romantic love are yesterday’s news, and — hot take — that’s totally okay with me.
Celebrating love isn’t just for couples anymore (though we have ideas for you guys, too, not to worry); it’s for besties, gal-pals, and the whole crew!
Whether you’re flying solo, hanging with your pals, throwing a dinner party with family members, or enjoying a cozy night with your special someone, we’ve got the scoop on crafting a celebration that’s uniquely yours.
This guide is your new go-to list of Valentine’s Day party ideas for adults — no cheesy vibes, just fun and genuinely entertaining suggestions for your adult Valentine’s Day event. You can throw a legit party and have some good old-fashioned fun with friends and lovers.
Here’s how.
Top 10 Valentine Party Ideas for Adults
Get ready to release your inner cupid (or party animal) with plenty of ideas that are delightfully out-of-the-ordinary.
Even if you’re in the “I hate Valentine’s Day” crowd, we have some solid party suggestions that may just convert you to a Valentine’s Day enthusiast.
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1. Host a Karaoke Party
Whether you belt out “I Will Always Love You” with Whitney, dance to “Mama Mia” with ABBA, or croon along with TXT’s “Anti-Romantic,” you and the whole crew can screech about love, loss, and everything in between all night long.
Not to mention it’s the perfect opportunity to share all of your favorite love songs with your friends! We guarantee you won’t run out of amorous songs to, uh, artfully un-alive.
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Turn up the fun (and the cringe) with this karaoke machine. Who knows, you may just discover the next Idol star.
These editable, digital download invites couldn't be any cuter or more convenient.
Because what party is complete without disco lights?
2. Legendary Couples Party
I don’t know about you, but costume parties are one of my favorite things ever.
This year, invite all your favorite couples to embrace the fact that they are annoyingly disgusting (in the name of love, of course) and have a “legendary couples” theme for your Valentine’s Day party.
Go gangster and dress up like Bonnie and Clyde. Or, if you have a flair for the dramatic, maybe Marc Antony and Cleopatra. Make a contest out of it and have everyone vote for their favorites!
Need more legendary couple ideas? We got you, boo:
- Romeo & Juliet
- Marilyn Monroe & Joe DiMaggio
- John & Jackie Kennedy
- Adam & Eve
- Princess Leia and Han Solo
- Westley & Buttercup
- Jack & Rose
- Napoleon & Josephine
- Bogart & Bacall
3. Anti-Romantic Game Night
Host an anti-love game night with one of these great Valentine’s Day party games.
Embrace your grumpy, cantankerous, or downright villainous side with a card game that’s perfect to play with the newly single or just the jaded.
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Description: Because Valentines and Vampires go together, right? I hear Dracula was rather debonair anyway. |
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Or is it, really? Find out with this hilarious party game for adults and teens.
Because Valentines and Vampires go together, right? I hear Dracula was rather debonair anyway.
You might have thought you loved them before you started the game, but the universe has other ideas.
4. Galentine’s Day Brunch Party
I can personally attest to the fun level of a Girls-Only Galentine’s Day Party, as I either host or attend one nearly every year.
Grab an adorable heart-shaped waffle maker, make a girl power playlist with pink sparkly vibes, and celebrate the beauty of good company and quality time amongst friends.
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As sophisticated as it gets without having to do the dishes.
Because there's nothing so sweet as fluffy, heart-shaped cakes topped with syrup and berries.
Whether you're sipping sweet tea or mimosas, your brunch won't be complete without these cuties.
5. Valentine Raffle Blast
Whether it’s for money (like on these tickets) or fun goodie bags, a raffle is always a fun activity and a great way to boost up a party!
You can make your own raffle tickets, or order some ready-made. Be sure to choose exciting and enticing prizes!
More prizes that don’t include cold, hard cash might be:
- Desserts (pies, cakes, cookies, candy bars)
- Night of free babysitting
- Car wash
- Tickets to a local play/show/dance
- Bottle of wine
- Gift card to restaurant
6. Anti-Valentine’s Day Party
Not everyone loves celebrating “love.”
Don’t worry — there’s a Valentine’s Day party for them, too! Get all your single friends together and enjoy a day of rebelling against love. Watch non-romantic movies such as The First Wives Club or My Bloody Valentine.
Decorate with “Love Stinks” anti-Valentine’s Day balloons. You can even accent your cupcakes with these cute toppers that say things like, “It’s not you, it’s me,” and “Be my ex.”
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7. Host a Sip Party
Ever heard of “Paint & Sip” parties?
Well, while you’re more than welcome to paint the night away, if you have a less artistically inclined friend group there’s nothing wrong with just having a sip party.
When you’re planning a Valentine’s Day party for adults, nothing is classier than some exotic cocktails! Follow the recipe in this video to make some Love Martinis to enjoy with your chocolate-covered strawberries, oysters, chili peppers, figs, and artichokes.
Okay, that sounds like a weird menu…we were going for aphrodisiacs. It would probably be easier to just stick with these Love Martinis and maybe, like, finger sandwiches or a couple of charcuterie boards or something.
8. Heart Cookie Decorating Contest
Sugar cookies that are only slightly DIY?
Well, this Valentine’s Day sugar cookie kit sounds perfect! Have a little contest (and satisfy your sweet tooth) with all your friends to see who can frost, pipe, and decorate the best.
Of course, you’ll get to eat all the “ugly” ones, so it’s a win-win for all involved. Don’t forget to have a judge! Best. Job. Ever.
9. Chocolate Fondue Party
Chocolate is to Valentine’s Day what Dean Martin is to an Italian-American restaurant — essential.
So why not have a whole fountain of chocolatey goodness flowing at your get-together? You can get cute little, themed skewers, strawberries, cookies, you name it!
You could even add a few drops of food coloring to white chocolate and have a pink fountain, too! All your party guests will love indulging in these sweet treats.
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Four tiers of flowing, chocolatey goodness looks like nothing short of a fantasy.
A skewered heart never looked so innocent as these cute cocktail picks.
Dip your way to a delectable treat with these melting wafers in dark and white chocolate from Ghirardelli.
Related: 10 Romantic & Fun Valentine’s Day Games for Couples
10. Rom-Com Movie Night
Have a Valentine’s Day-themed movie night!
Movie night is always a great party idea, and so easy, too, once you cue up your favorite streaming service. Whether it’s just the two of you, your single gals, or your couple friends — end the night binge-watching your favorite Valentine’s rom-coms.
TIP: Want to put a twist on it? Go ahead and make it a pajama party as well! Might as well be comfy while you’re at it.
- How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
- Crazy Rich Asians
- You’ve Got Mail
- Brides Maids
- She’s the Man
- Why Him
- Did You Hear About the Morgans?
- He’s Just Not that Into You
- 13 Going on 30
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Orville Redenbacher who? Pop your way to a healthier cinema snack with this great turbo popcorn machine.
Perfect for snacking the night away during your rom-com movie marathon.
America's original licorice strips with a spicy cinnamon twist for Valentine's Day.
From intimate gatherings to lively soirées, we’ve offered up a variety of ideas to suit just about any style.
So, don’t settle for the ordinary — let’s elevate your celebration, create lasting memories, and make this Valentine’s Day uniquely yours. Click, plan, and let the love-infused festivities commence! Your perfect Valentine’s Day bash awaits!
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